Oh my thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us. Definitely not that its a good thing that you have experienced the same thing as I. However comforting to know that someone understands me. I would so like to be able to sit down in a chair without first having to size it up compared to the size of my rear. Yeah we love the Disney property and usuallly visit twice a year. We refuse to go back now until we are down 100 lbs each. I could not even enjoy myself this time. Did you happen to see my picture of the chair on the cruise ship. Oh my I just hate chairs with arms. I hope you guys are doing good in your joiurney. Many blessings Melissa